It's been a long while since i posted, as many things happened at home... And it just sets me thinking about LIFE, my life...
The different kinds of people in the corporate world are:
#1 Sole bread winners: Some people who hard all their lives to put food on the table, to make ends meet. They cannot stop because everything is depended on the works of their hands. They are very hardworking people who through honest means do what they could and appreciates the stability of there jobs.
#2 Ladder climber: They climb from ladder to ladder, trying to achieve more in life. They are driven to promotions and outdoing others. Some by righteous means, others by stepping on others to reach another step higher.
#3 Bridge builder: You might have heard this before, 'it's not what you know but who you know'. to a certain extend it is true, but some people make use of the relationships they built to their advantages and benefits. They build relationship with a purpose in mind.
#4 Fu er dai: This is a commonly used terms for people who are born with silver spoon. Some are born in gold spoons. They do not need to do much and have everything they want. What they have is more than what they can spend.
#5 Dreamers: Everyone dreams to do something they like and they want in life. Dreaming of the better life and the possibilities into the future. They may come out with many great items but never step out of where they are.
#6 Dream chasers: People who dream and give up all that they had, the comfort and security to chase those dreams. Do they get the kind of life they dream of?
It's easy for people who sits behind a desk and get money coming into their account every month, with or without a lot of work to do, to complain about work; pay too little and what is required of them... Isn't that why they are receiving a pay cheque in the first place?
Many people say that they envy me, that now that i am a boss, i get to go around doing whatever i want. Not having to work as and when i want. No stress and no worries. No need to see the face of a boss, and how they desire the kind of life i have...
Speaking from experience, starting a shop had been the hardest thing in my life by far. The amount of money, effort and hard work i put into this is far greater than you can think or imagine. The amount of stress i go through and how i have not drawn a salary but have to worry about the salary of my staff. The sweat and the tears involved. If today you want to be a dream chaser, I would encourage you to step out and live your dreams! But first, count the cost. Know how much are you willing to put into making this dream a reality and how far are you willing to go... how long are you willing to go without getting paid till everything stabilises.
Because, only when your dream can last the distance, you can reach #7.
#7 Bai shou qi jia: These are the minority of people who started out without anything. They are not people who are born with silver or gold spoon. They may even be from a humble family background (like me), who live out their dreams. What brought them there was not good luck, but perseverance and hard work. Fighting through the good times and the bad. Not giving up on what they have set their hearts to do.
Some day, we may wake up comparing the advantages and disadvantages of being born with silver spoon and feel that life is unfair. But at the end of the day, what really matters is not where we started from, but where we are heading to and how we are getting there.
I forgot when was the last time i shop and bought something i like for myself, because of the amount of things that i need to be concern about. And i guess, i am last on my own list. I'm praying that i can persevere though and that God will provide me with the strength, ability, productivity and provision to hang on till the promises come to pass!
Thursday, October 1, 2015
The truth behind the LIFE we all desire to have
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Saturday, August 8, 2015
Old School Delight
As the Singapore's national day is here.. and unfortunately i cannot be in Singapore due to work, i will share the food i miss!


Chicken wing, Laksa and curry chicken!This is a little cafe sitting along Upper Thomson road. They sell traditional toys a.k.a masak masak at a small corner of the the shop. I guess National Day is a time of reminiscing the wonderful childhood days.


Chicken wing, Laksa and curry chicken!This is a little cafe sitting along Upper Thomson road. They sell traditional toys a.k.a masak masak at a small corner of the the shop. I guess National Day is a time of reminiscing the wonderful childhood days.
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Wednesday, August 5, 2015
Understanding Depression!
I came across this by the "World Health Organization" and i thought it was really helpful. Share it with people you love and care about because anyone could be suffering from depression that you didn't know about.
Personally, i do have my own periods of depression. But it is important how you deal with them. You can look through the images for:
- the statistics of depression all over the world
- what causes depression
- different types of depression and its symptoms
- seek help
- successful people with depression
Lastly at the end, you will find my personal tips to coping with depression :)
My tips to coping with depression are:
- surround yourself with friends, real friends!
- Pray and talk to your God! no one can be with you 24/7 except Him
- be active in your lifestyle. this will be hard but you got to purposefully go out and not stay home or in bed
- have a routine and stick with it
- it's ok to ask for help! there are a lot of helplines and counsellors and church leaders who are very trained in dealing with depression
- you need to know that you are not alone and you are not the only one going through this
- lastly, do happy things. Things that you love and you will enjoy!
Personally, i do have my own periods of depression. But it is important how you deal with them. You can look through the images for:
- the statistics of depression all over the world
- what causes depression
- different types of depression and its symptoms
- seek help
- successful people with depression
Lastly at the end, you will find my personal tips to coping with depression :)
My tips to coping with depression are:
- surround yourself with friends, real friends!
- Pray and talk to your God! no one can be with you 24/7 except Him
- be active in your lifestyle. this will be hard but you got to purposefully go out and not stay home or in bed
- have a routine and stick with it
- it's ok to ask for help! there are a lot of helplines and counsellors and church leaders who are very trained in dealing with depression
- you need to know that you are not alone and you are not the only one going through this
- lastly, do happy things. Things that you love and you will enjoy!
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Sunday, August 2, 2015
Exploring Singapore (Part 2) - LONG WEEKEND AHEAD!
For those of you who are flying in to Singapore and for all Singaporeans staying in Singapore over the National Day weekend, these are some things that you might want to do! Look through and start planning your weekend!!!
7th August
Sentosa Song of the Sea (FREE)
Marina Bay Sands Skating Rink (FREE till 9th August) *T&C
The LAST Piece, 21 Haji Lane (5% storewide, up to 50% off selected items till 31st August)
8th August
Sentosa Merlion Lookout (FREE)
9th August (National Day)
FREE Bus and MRT rides
Fort Siloso (FREE guided tour)
10th August
Cable Car (FREE)
Science Centre Singapore (FREE)
Singapore Botantic Gardens (FREE except orchid garden $5)
Jurong Bird Park (50% off)
Gardens by the Bay (50% off)
Singapore Zoo, River Safari & Night Safari (50% off)
Wild Wild Wet (50% off)
Others:
ALL Museums (FREE for Singaporeans and PR)
ActiveSG Swimming pool and fitness room (FREE)
Singapore Sports Hub (Lots of activities)
HAPPY SG50!
7th August
Sentosa Song of the Sea (FREE)
Marina Bay Sands Skating Rink (FREE till 9th August) *T&C
The LAST Piece, 21 Haji Lane (5% storewide, up to 50% off selected items till 31st August)
8th August
Sentosa Merlion Lookout (FREE)
9th August (National Day)
FREE Bus and MRT rides
Fort Siloso (FREE guided tour)
10th August
Cable Car (FREE)
Science Centre Singapore (FREE)
Singapore Botantic Gardens (FREE except orchid garden $5)
Jurong Bird Park (50% off)
Gardens by the Bay (50% off)
Singapore Zoo, River Safari & Night Safari (50% off)
Wild Wild Wet (50% off)
Others:
ALL Museums (FREE for Singaporeans and PR)
ActiveSG Swimming pool and fitness room (FREE)
Singapore Sports Hub (Lots of activities)
HAPPY SG50!
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Candle art!
Throwback to my time in Spain, came across this candle shop near where i stayed.
but it was a waste that overtime i walked past the shop, it was already closed. i tried going there for 4 days but i missed it everyday. Hopefully i will be able to make a trip back soon and that the shop will still be around!
but it was a waste that overtime i walked past the shop, it was already closed. i tried going there for 4 days but i missed it everyday. Hopefully i will be able to make a trip back soon and that the shop will still be around!
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Saturday, July 18, 2015
Vanity Fact #3 - Time and Life
On my way home, i heard this saying..
We have a general mindset of how life should be..
birth -> baby -> childhood -> teenage -> youth -> adult -> mid-life -> senior -> elderly -> death
At every stage, we can't wait to grow to the next stage
and we always tell ourselves "someday i will do this"
"hopefully, someday i will do that".. "someday~" "someday~"
Until a day, where sickness or unforeseen circumstances strikes...
we say "If only i had did this"
"i wish i have done that"
Most people will tell you that
"i want to live till 60, or some 70, 80"
but do the bees count their days?
do the fishes in the sea and birds in the air count their days?
"Vanity of vanities, all is vanity"
This just remind me of all that Pastor Tan shared in service today.
Vanity - for it is uncontrollable and uncertain
Who can be sure of what is going to happen tomorrow?
For the rain will fall when the clouds are heavy
To be alive is a miracle in itself
Will you be thankful in good times and in bad times?
Will you rejoice in them all, knowing that God is in control
He is the Creator of both Day and Night.
How will you live your life?
Counting your days? or
Trusting God that He is in control and that everything will fall into place according to His time.
There is no one template fits all, when it comes to our life.
one thing i know...
All things works together for good to those who love Him and are called according to His purpose!
We have a general mindset of how life should be..
birth -> baby -> childhood -> teenage -> youth -> adult -> mid-life -> senior -> elderly -> death
At every stage, we can't wait to grow to the next stage
and we always tell ourselves "someday i will do this"
"hopefully, someday i will do that".. "someday~" "someday~"
Until a day, where sickness or unforeseen circumstances strikes...
we say "If only i had did this"
"i wish i have done that"
Most people will tell you that
"i want to live till 60, or some 70, 80"
but do the bees count their days?
do the fishes in the sea and birds in the air count their days?
"Vanity of vanities, all is vanity"
This just remind me of all that Pastor Tan shared in service today.
Vanity - for it is uncontrollable and uncertain
Who can be sure of what is going to happen tomorrow?
For the rain will fall when the clouds are heavy
To be alive is a miracle in itself
Will you be thankful in good times and in bad times?
Will you rejoice in them all, knowing that God is in control
He is the Creator of both Day and Night.
How will you live your life?
Counting your days? or
Trusting God that He is in control and that everything will fall into place according to His time.
There is no one template fits all, when it comes to our life.
one thing i know...
All things works together for good to those who love Him and are called according to His purpose!
Thursday, July 2, 2015
Dorra Slimming Experience Review
Class 95 have been giving out free 2x Dorra Slimming French treatment. I have always been curious about whether these companies are really giving them "FREE". So i decided to give it a try. After sending in the SMS, Dorra Slimming contacted me almost immediately. You won't have to worry that you are not the first to SMS in and you will not win it or etc.
After calling me, they arranged for me to go down to their nearest convenient outlet as soon as possible. No matter how busy you are, they will make sure they arrange a timing with you before you can hang up on them.
I went to the outlet at Kovan. I told them that i only had 1 and a half hours and they say that the treatment will only take an hour and asked me not to worry, then one lady brought me to a consultation room and asked me to wait for awhile. Handing me a form to fill in. The therapist came in and started to explain to me their treatment... then all the different products... then all the available packages and upgrades you can do... still not convinced?
and since you are the 'winner' of this Dorra Slimming from the radio station, you have even more privileges if you upgrade NOW~! Still not convinced? Another senior came in and started all over again... then they took out all the testimonies of the past customers and show them to me one by one... One hour had past from the time i entered the shop and i have not even started my treatment... I told them i am in a rush and had an appointment after this, they say that they will start the treatment.
Finally, i am brought into the treatment room. After taking all the measurements, i am laying on the bed waiting for the treatment to start. The therapist did not for any moment stop trying to convince me to sign up. Asking me why? Why i don't want to give it a try? The 2 treatment will not be enough and the 2 free treatment DOES NOT come with this serum and without the serum, you WILL NOT see results. So if you sign up now, they will upgrade your 2 sessions to have the serum as well.
I was wondering... then what am i doing here now? anyway, she went on and on and on... halfway through, the other senior came in AGAIN! The treatment was not enjoyable at all with them going on and on and on.... They started of with trying to sell me 30, then 20 then 10... going on and on for almost 2 hours now.....
I thought, finally my treatment is finishing and i can rush for my next appointment now... (it's already been 2 and a half hours by this time) After the treatment, i'm back in the consultation room. Then it starts AGAIN!!!!!!! This time the senior tries to make the junior look pitiful, saying that she needs to build her portfolio. Saying that the junior served me very well just now right? I can help her by signing up and becoming part of her portfolio etc. Pleased with me to help her etc.. I told them I AM IN A RUSH!!! but they say they understand... and went on... in the end, i gave in and signed for a 5 sessions. Even with that, i had to bargain with them so that they will give in and let me go...
Seriously, unless you are really willing to go and end up paying that kind of price for slimming treatments... i think the decision is up to you... After leaving, i did my research. I hope i did them earlier but i'm still thankful that i only signed for 5 sessions. I found people who signed for $50K worth of treatments and they still would not let them go during every single treatment sessions they attended.
At the end of the day, i wondered if i 'WON' or i actually 'LOST'... Was there results in the treatment? that did not matter to me anymore because the experience was just unpleasant. I this my worse hard selling experience ever. This is also the reason why i love and cherish those people do business with true sincerity and out of love. :)
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