Key To My Heart

Key To The Heart

hahaha

read the post on Nixi's blog naming me as a 'Hopeless Romantic'

and her honest proclamation

kinda agrees with some part of her post somehow

well

which girl doesn't want to be a princess

to be loved and protected

and who doesn't wish that their love story would well be like any fair-tale

where the girl look gorgeously gorgeous

and the guy charmingly charming

a relationship where there is no hurt

and just simply filled by the love in the air

everything happening spontaneously

the kind of courtship where you would just enjoy dazing into each others eyes

everything you all do

even if its the most simplest thing

sitting there all day can also seems to be the most enjoyable thing

the kind of feeling where you are the most important

and all else doesn't matter at all

the kind of love that carries u through all kinds of storm

knowing that the person will be there for you for better or for worse

even when quarrel or comes into disagreeable

will not throw in the towel and just give up on the relationship

but endures all and believes all

BUT

the trouble with love nowadays seems to be 

either

getting into relationship is being too over thought

where people evaluates every little thing

even to the exact kind of thought or emotions they expect from one another

sometimes having unrealistic expectations

causing unnecessary disappointment

hence not getting into any relationship

OR

the watering down of the value of relationship to the point where

just like what nixi said, a race, market

people get into this race of getting into relationship

rushing into things and the courtship no longer sweet

but feels like a contract

u happy with what i can provide, i am able to provide what u need?

then sign contract

=.=

i feel both is just as imbalance la

so if u are in either category mai cha k

its just as bad

i tink the key is about being balance la

those who just got to know 

dun just take it as a contract

trust God to provide u the right person

dun need to rush into things de

give it a bit more time to get to know each other

"Love WILL stand through the test of time de"

as for those already know each other very long kind

stop tinking and evaluating too much and step out in faith

 

remembering the 3 points pastor shared on women's need

i tink all girls are looking for the same thing

its a honest, sincere and preserving heart

that will move even the heart of stone

NOT 

how good looking is he/she

how fun-loving is he/she

how charismatic he/she is

what status is he/she holding

how many CGs is he/she leading

how many members under him/her

how much he/she earning

what job is he/she doing

how rich is his/her family

PLEASE, JUST CUT IT OUT

if u are someone looking for just the above 

not a sincere heart and character?

someone u truly love and who truly loves u?

then maybe all u want is not love, is lust

u are just going after WHAT he/she is

and not really WHO he/she is