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Saturday, February 28, 2009

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Monday, February 23, 2009

Family day

I am very very happy today!
Because i got to bring our jasper out~
brought him to the beach
never see him so excited and happy before

Van made him run 'a bit' by making him chase after him 
and swam 'a bit' by throwing him into the sea
but i know he really really enjoyed himself as much as we did

Bathing him with his shampoo
scrubbing and washing, scrubbing and washing
to ensure that he is clean and don't fall sleep after being in the rain

Then he got the best service of being blow dry
brushing and blowing, brushing and blowing
to ensure he dun feel too that the wind from the hair dryer is too warm
and that he will feel cozy and comfortable after bathe

After a short few hours out, jasper was so tire he circulated his couch and comfortably sleep
while we went to take our bath
then i got the hair drying service too!
hehehehe
=)

And then comfortably i went to bed for a nap
while van carry on with his mugging

i love my dear!
Thanks for everything
=)

The Unspoken Danger

The Unspoken Danger

Everything in life requires a decision
and everything happens because a decision was made consciously or subconsciously

but in the midst of it all
there is something that holds as much effect as making a decision
or at times a even greater effect
and the danger of it compared to a decision is higher and greater
because of the fact that its often unspoken

whatever is in the realm of the unknown or not clear
there will be a higher chances of falling into it accidentally 
want to make a guess what is it that i am talking about?
that sounds so scary?

that is the EXPECTATION!
how we would place a certain expectation on EVERYTHING in our lives

parents expect children to behave a certain way?
get a certain kind of results?
excel in certain fields?
talented in certain ways?

husband expects the wife to respect them to a certain extend?
be understanding towards their work and other commitments?
to know their needs?
to serve them?
to take care of children?
to do the housework?

wife expects the husband to be concern about their emotions?
be available for them when they need them?
o provide for the family?
to teach the children?

couples expects from each other time?
a certain level of commitment?
how they should relate to them?
how they should talk or treat them?
how understanding or loving they should be?
and many many more...

employers expect the workers to produce a certain standard in work?
be more detailed and excel?
be more hardworking?
fall sick lesser?
come work earlier?
go home later?
work even from home at night?
produce work on time?

employees expect their employer to be understanding to their limitations?
be reasonable about the time they need to rest and spend with love ones?
be understanding that they might also fall sick?
show abit of concern about their well being?
spend time eating and relating to them other than work?

basically the list never ends
and many times these expectations are not spoken but yet required

communication is the key to all relationship
just like it is inevitable to have expectations
it should also be inevitable to make these expectations clear
so that there will be no unnecessary misunderstandings and disappointment

at the same time
communication is not just about "shooting out" all your requirements
but communication is a 2-way thing
it also requires understanding from the receiving party
what is said and not received = not communicated!

Let your "yes" be "yes" and "no" be "no"
for whatever in between belongs to the devil
guard the relationships in your life today!
=)

Word For The Day #139

Expurgate
To remove offensive parts

Friday, February 20, 2009

Monday, February 16, 2009

Shopping Spree

Went to far east with my dear today
together with our son, wenkai
took a bit of time to just walk walk around
and he bought me a top...
=)

a colourful, youthful braclet...

and 2 other more formal colours to go with my other clothes...
=)

Word For The Day #132

Erstwhile
Former; formerly

Saturday, February 14, 2009

1st Valentines Together

This is our very first Valentine's Day together
this is my presents!
Very cute rite?
Hehe..
i will stroke the hair and rub its nose everyday
hehe...
and it will be by my side when i sleep
=)


And this is my Van's very own recorded album!
If u have yet to hear his voice
you dunno what is called BEST!
I LOVE MY VAN!
=)

The Way You Sing To Me

The Way You Sing To Me

Listen to the song on my blog...
A voice that melted my heart...
Completely!

Nothing compares to this angelic voice... 
that won my heart... 
the first time i heard him sing~

My valentines gift
his very own recorded album!
=)

Word For The Day #130

Virtuoso
Exceptional performer

Sunday, February 8, 2009

The Fatherly Figure

today is Javier's 1 month old birthday
cute rite?
hmm wait...

Wow~
Javier seems to be very comfortable in the arms of my Van dear lei
See 0.0

i knew he is gonna be a good father!
=x

something silly...
but i actually already thought of the names of my children next time lei
if is a son, Yeo Zun Wang, 杨尊王
and if is a daughter, Yeo Jing Yu, 杨敬玉
hehehe...
nice names rite?
got meaning de k!

尊王 Zun Wang
represents revered and honored king
someone of high places
the king of all is also the servant of all
to lead by example
the importance of honoring people
because i want him to grow up to be someone who learns to honor and be honored
=)


敬玉 Jing Yu
represents respected and treasured jade
someone of great values
a lady of dignity and integrity
through her lifestyle upholds the importance of life values
because i want her to grow up to be someone of dignity and respected by all
=)

*Copyright hor, so don't copy my babies names! 
BLEAP!

Word For The Day #124

Acclaim
Approval

Monday, February 2, 2009

3rd Month!

Weee~
went to take the Cable car together
=)
See the sky is still bright...

darker...
and darker...
and it's night time already...

hahaha...
no la
the trip didnt take that long~
its just that we took it at 6plus
so it the sunset timing

and actually u might be thinking what so fun about the cable car right?
hmm
its not about wat you are doing
its about who you are doing it with u know
look...
i tink many girls would be envious of me to be able to be sitting right beside a charming and dashing guy
wahahaha
got the point?
=p

Word For The Day #118

Virtuoso
Exceptional performer